2024年中外文化差異造成的十種誤會

2024贊美致謝出游稱呼送別鼓掌眼神送禮做客吃飯中外文化差異造成的十1：贊美說些關(guān)切人的話。為了獻(xiàn)殷勤，我們常喜愛對客人說Youmustbetired?Haveagoodrest.。然而，一般的問候之<<<2：中國人認(rèn)為對家里人或者好摯友的幫助是one'sexpressionslikeplease,thankyou,etc.。所以，和老<<<3：aChineseoffersrefreshmentsordrinkstohiscolleague,hiscolleagueoftendeclinestheofferpolitely,becausehedoesn'twanttotroublethepersonwhooffersanditalsoshowshispoliteness.Normallythepersonwhooffersstillpreparesorbuysrefreshmentsordrinks,andthiswillbeexpectedbyhiscolleague.Sharingfoodanddrinkwhengoingouttogetheriscommonamongcolleaguesandfriends。你的確定。Respectone'sowndecision,yesmeansonewantsit,nomeansonedoesn't,politenessis<<<4：dislikebeinglabelledasold,beingyoungvaluedabovebeingold。LaoisacommonlyusedtermbyChinesepeopletoaddresssomeonewhoisolderthanthespeakertoshowhispoliteness,respectandcloseness.Thetermdoesnotnecessarilymeanoldage.LaoWaiisacolloquialtermofaddressforforeigners。<<<5：Likeeveryoneelseweareaffectionatetoourfriendsandrelatives,butperhapsweshowourwholefamilyaswellassomefriendswillgototherailwaystationortheairporttoseeapersonoff,nothatnobodywillhugorkisswhenthetimecomesforwhoisleavingandparentsmayholdhis/herhandforphysicalcontact.InfacthuggingandkissingareseldomseeninpublicinChina,nomatterwhattheoccasionis。<<<6：中國人通常都會暫停發(fā)言，而后隨著聽眾一起鼓掌。In虛心啊。Ofcourse,whenaChinesespeakerclapshishandsastheaudienceisapplauding,heisnotapplaudinghimself,butexpressinghisthankstohisaudience.Asnotedearlier,Westernersfeelpuzzledortheperformerisapplaudinghimself.<<<7：nervousness,liketoburytheirnoseintheirexpectseyecontact,thoughthisdoesnothavetobeconstant.lookathisaudiencenowandthen.Speakinginpublicisalsoakindoftwo-Thespeakerwillcertainlyfeelembarrassedwhenheseesthathisaudiencedonotlookathim.Butifhedoesn'tlookathisaudiencenowandthen,hisaudiencealsohastherightnottolistentowhathe<<<8：但是，在西方，人們送酒的時候都是只送一瓶。Oneisquiteenough,twoareofcoursewelcomebutunusualassoonastheyaregiventoexpressappreciation.InChinesefeelthatifyouopenthegiftassoonasitisgiven,youmightembarrassthepersonwhogivesthetendtoopenthegiftsafterthevisitorshaveleft.Whatismore,manypeoplesendgiftswithoutwrappingthem,andiftheywrapthem,theyusuallytellthereceiverwhatisinside,andthereceiverwillthankthesenderandputthegiftasidewithoutunwrappingthemsincetheyalreadyknowwhatisinside.However,whenwereceivegiftsfromanEnglishnativespeaker,custombyopeningthegiftsinfrontofhimorherandexpressourappreciation。<<<9：老外是怎么看待這些行為的呢?I'moftentakenabackbythewayvisitorscomeroundtomyflatandseemtopullingdownbooksfrommyshelves,evenpeeringat<<<10：8-10hospitable,ifanythingtoohospitable。而且他們也喜愛說Thedishesarequitegood;these外卻不喜愛要別人給自己夾菜。Idon'tthinkI'llevergetusedtotheeatinghabitsoutYouknow,thewaypeopleputthingsonyourplate...老外樂于讓人自主選擇喜愛的食物。Theythinktohelpyourselfisthebestway.Foreignersgivegueststhechancetochoosewhatistheirfavourite。和老外吃飯，中國人千萬不要虛心含蓄。Chineseneverseemhungrywhentheycomeroundtomyplace.theyalwayssayno.則更顯圓滑。Foreignersneverpretendtobemodest.Theyjusttel