怎樣和學(xué)生溝通

1、怎樣和學(xué)生溝通教書育人是一門很深的學(xué)問(wèn)，是一門需要深思的藝術(shù)，教師和學(xué)生之間應(yīng)該構(gòu)建起健康、和諧的師生關(guān)系。在這樣一種關(guān)系下，才能教學(xué)相長(zhǎng)，師生共同進(jìn)步。怎樣才能建立健康、和諧的師生關(guān)系呢？我覺(jué)得，溝通無(wú)疑是最重要的方式。（一）用愛(ài)心接納每個(gè)孩子孩子來(lái)自不同的家，先天遺傳與后天環(huán)境都不同，他們?cè)趯W(xué)校里的表現(xiàn)自然也會(huì)有很大的差異。為人師者應(yīng)深切體認(rèn)這一點(diǎn)，用心接納每一個(gè)孩子，不管他是聰明，駑鈍，整潔，邋遢，乖巧或淘氣，他都是一個(gè)真真實(shí)實(shí)的個(gè)體，需要被接納，也唯有老師用心接納，孩子才能把上課當(dāng)成一種享受，而樂(lè)意留在里面學(xué)習(xí)。（二）緩解學(xué)生的心理壓力：學(xué)生感到最痛苦莫過(guò)于誤解；最快樂(lè)的莫過(guò)于充分的了

2、解；尤其新生的一代，從小在呵護(hù)中長(zhǎng)大，有主見(jiàn)，敢發(fā)表，挫折的忍受力卻顯的偏低；一遇到困難，自我壓力甚大，不知如何自處。因此培養(yǎng)學(xué)生積極開(kāi)朗的情緒，掃除內(nèi)心的陰霾，建立自信心，增進(jìn)解決問(wèn)題的能力極為重要。學(xué)生努力著手于善后的處理時(shí)，最好在一旁默默關(guān)注，等到確實(shí)需要幫助時(shí)解決，再即時(shí)伸出援手。（三）用誠(chéng)心贊美鼓勵(lì)花草樹(shù)木大都向陽(yáng)生長(zhǎng)，人也一樣，喜歡被贊美，被鼓勵(lì)。老師若能真心誠(chéng)意欣賞孩子的純真，善良，可愛(ài)，必能找到很多值得贊美的行為。若發(fā)現(xiàn)孩子有值得贊美的行為時(shí)，更要把握時(shí)機(jī)，不管用語(yǔ)言，肢體，眼神，動(dòng)作，表情，評(píng)語(yǔ)，只要是真心誠(chéng)意的，孩子必然感受深刻，例如：一個(gè)原本不怎么突出的孩子，老師若天天真

3、心誠(chéng)意的對(duì)他說(shuō)：“你上課滿專心的，成績(jī)應(yīng)該會(huì)越來(lái)越進(jìn)步才對(duì)”適度的期許，會(huì)產(chǎn)生鼓舞振奮的力量，這也是希望孩子成功的有效方法之一。（四）專心傾聽(tīng)單憑表面的舉止是無(wú)法了解孩子的內(nèi)心世界的，做一位最好的聽(tīng)眾，有耐心的傾聽(tīng)學(xué)生們表達(dá)意見(jiàn)；當(dāng)他們情緒困擾時(shí)，給與適度的支持；學(xué)生是獨(dú)立的個(gè)體，過(guò)分的為他們?cè)O(shè)想，容易產(chǎn)生反效果，而且當(dāng)學(xué)生內(nèi)說(shuō)完，別急著給建議。（五）潛移默化的作用其實(shí)家伙司的日常的種種行為，學(xué)生都看在眼里。言教不如身教，教師的行為都是學(xué)生學(xué)習(xí)的榜樣，經(jīng)常對(duì)學(xué)生敷衍了事，學(xué)生也可能養(yǎng)成推卸責(zé)任的惡習(xí)。在潛移默化中，學(xué)生會(huì)承續(xù)教師的缺點(diǎn)與優(yōu)點(diǎn)，不要以為自己的一言一行不會(huì)對(duì)他們?cè)斐捎绊憫?yīng)為這時(shí)期他

4、們是敏感且學(xué)習(xí)力甚高，因此建立明確的教師形象，實(shí)有助于學(xué)生的成長(zhǎng)與學(xué)習(xí)。如果教師和學(xué)生溝通無(wú)障礙，如果老師和學(xué)生共同學(xué)習(xí)是一間愉快的事，如果教室里充滿笑聲，如果每一個(gè)孩子在教室都被尊重，都有歸屬感，讓學(xué)生上起課來(lái)，有如沐春風(fēng)，如沐春雨的感覺(jué)，學(xué)生自然會(huì)視上學(xué)為樂(lè)事，且視上課為不得放棄的權(quán)利，那么教室必然春意盎然，學(xué)生必然春風(fēng)滿面。qcwa3ptgz7r4i30ka1dkaghn3xtkknbycudxqa7fhyi2chhi92tgkqcwa3ptgshls50clmtwn60eo8wgqv7xav2ohum32wgeauwydiawgmer4i30ka1dkaghn3xtkknbycudxq

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