人生教我的45項功課檔

1、人生教我的45項功課.作者 : Regina Brett, 90歲, 來自俄亥俄州, 克里夫蘭, Plain Dealer城 為了慶祝變得更老了, 我曾經(jīng)寫下人生教我的45個功課. 這是我寫過最叫座的專欄. 我這把老骨頭8月就要90歲了, 所以, 再一次, 在這里呈現(xiàn)這一個專欄 1.人生是不公平, 但還是好得很. 2.懷疑的時候, 為未來踏出一小步. 3.人生太短, 短到來不及浪費(fèi)時間去恨任何一個人. 4.生病的時候, 你的工作不會照顧妳. 你的朋友和父母會. 保持聯(lián)絡(luò). 5.每一個月付清你的信用卡. 6.你不需要每一次都吵贏. 同意你不同意的. 7.找人一起哭. 它比獨(dú)自啜泣更加療愈 8.對

2、上帝生氣沒有關(guān)系. 祂受得了. 9.退休存款從你的第一張薪水條開始. 10.講到巧克力, 抗拒只是徒勞無功. 11.和你的過去和解, 所以它不會搞砸你的當(dāng)下 12.讓你的孩子看到你哭沒有關(guān)系 13.別拿自己的人生和他人做比較. 你根本不清楚他們的人生是怎么一回事 14.如果一段親密關(guān)系要偷偷摸摸, 你根本不應(yīng)該涉入. 15.一眨眼的功夫什么都會變. 但是別擔(dān)心: 上帝從來不眨眼. 16.深吸一口氣. 它會安定你的腦. 17.沒用, 不美, 或不喜悅的東西都丟掉. 18.沒讓你死的，真的會讓你更堅強(qiáng). 19.重拾快樂童年永不嫌晚. 但這第二次只能靠你不靠人. 20.追求你生命的所愛, 不要總是把

3、不要當(dāng)答案 21.點(diǎn)蠟燭, 用好的床單, 穿上炫麗的內(nèi)衣. 不要特殊場合才用. 今天就是特別的一天. 22.準(zhǔn)備要周全, 然后隨遇而安. 23.現(xiàn)在就離經(jīng)叛道. 不要一把年紀(jì)了才開始穿上紫色 24.最重要的性器官是腦袋. 25.除了你, 沒有人在主宰你的快樂. 26.把所謂的不幸，用這一句話把它表框起來 五年后, 這還重要嗎? 27.永遠(yuǎn)選擇生活 28.原諒每一個人、每一件事. 29.別人怎么看你，不干你的事. 30.時間會痊愈幾乎每一件事. 給時間. 時間. 31.無論情況多好或多壞, 它都會變的. 32.不要那么認(rèn)真的看待自己. 沒有人會這樣看待你的. 33.相信奇跡. 34.上帝愛你是因

4、為祂就是這樣, 不是因為你做了什么或是沒做什么. 35.不要稽查人生. 現(xiàn)在就呈現(xiàn)和做最大的發(fā)揮 36.變老了打敗另一種選項 - 死得早. 37.你的孩子只有一個童年 38.最后真正最重要的是你愛過 39.每一天都出門. 奇跡在四處等著. 40.如果我們都把我們的問題都丟成一堆, 然后看看其他人的, 我們會把我們的撿回來. 41.忌妒是浪費(fèi)時間. 你已經(jīng)擁有你所需要的了. 42.最好的都還沒來. 43.不管你感覺如何, 起來, 穿好和呈現(xiàn) 45.人生不會打上蝴蝶結(jié), 但它仍然是一份禮物. Regina Bretts 45 life lessons and 5 to grow onBy Regi

5、na Brett, The Plain Dealer September 20, 2007, 2:03PMOriginally published in The Plain Dealer on Sunday, May 28, 2006To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.It is the most-requested column Ive ever written. My odometer rolls over to 50 this week, so heres an update:1.

6、Life isnt fair, but its still good.2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.4. Dont take yourself so seriously. No one else does.5. Pay off your credit cards every month.6. You dont have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.7. Cry with some

7、one. Its more healing than crying alone.8. Its OK to get angry with God. He can take it.9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.11. Make peace with your past so it wont screw up the present.12. Its OK to let your children see you

8、cry.13. Dont compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldnt be in it.15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But dont worry; God never blinks.16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living,

9、or get busy dying.17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.19. Its never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, dont take no fo

10、r an answer.21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Dont save it for a special occasion. Today is special.22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.23. Be eccentric now. Dont wait for old age to wear purple.24. The most important sex organ is the brain.25. No one is in charg

11、e of your happiness except you.26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: In five years, will this matter?27. Always choose life.28. Forgive everyone everything.29. What other people think of you is none of your business.30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.31. However good or

12、bad a situation is, it will change.32. Your job wont take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.33. Believe in miracles.34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didnt do.35. Whatever doesnt kill you really does make you stronger.36. Growin

13、g old beats the alternative - dying young.37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone elses, wed grab ours back.41. Dont audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.42. Get rid of anything that isnt useful, beautiful or joyful.43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.45. Th