英語(yǔ)短文-英語(yǔ)短文：五種方式經(jīng)營(yíng)友情

1、英語(yǔ)短文英語(yǔ)短文：五種方式經(jīng)營(yíng)友情英語(yǔ)短文：Friendsinyourlifearelikepillarsonyourporch.Sometimestheyholdyouupandsometimestheyleanonyou.Sometimesit'sjustenoughtoknowthey'restandingby.Friendshipdoublesyourjoyanddividesyourgrief,andthatthemostbeautifuldiscoverythattruefriendsmakeisthattheycangrowseparatelywithoutgro

2、wingapart.在你的一生中，朋友就如支撐門廊的柱子，有時(shí)他們支持著你，有時(shí)也依賴著你。只要你知道他們一直在你身邊就已足夠。友情會(huì)使你的快樂翻倍，讓你的痛苦減半。而最重要的發(fā)現(xiàn)是真正的朋友不會(huì)因?yàn)榉指魞傻囟a(chǎn)生隔閡。Easilythemostimportantplacetohaveafriendisinmarriage.Forthatreason,marriagecounselorscontinuallyadvisehusbandsandwivestobefriends,pointingoutthatyoumaydivorceyourspouse,butyoudon'tdivorc

3、eyourfriend.我們很容易想到，最喜歡朋友角色的地方就是婚姻。因此，許多婚姻顧問都建議丈夫和妻子成為彼此的朋友，因?yàn)槟憧梢噪x開你的伴侶，但你絕對(duì)不會(huì)離開你的朋友。Friendshipstabilizesrelationshipsinthebusinessandsocialworldsaswell.Afriendshipispricelessandshouldbecherished,cultivated,andnurtured.友情同樣在職場(chǎng)和社交生活中起穩(wěn)固作用。友情無(wú)價(jià)，它需要被珍惜，培養(yǎng)和經(jīng)營(yíng)。1. Rememberingthegoldenrule牢記黃金準(zhǔn)則Withoutadou

4、bt,thegreatesthumanrelationsprincipleistotreatotherpeoplelikeyouwanttobetreated.Friendshiprequiresmanyqualitiesunselfishness,genuinecarefortheotherperson,andtheabilitytolistenwhentheotherpersonneedstotalk,tonameafew.Whenyoushowrespectforyourfriendsandgratitudefortheirfriendship,you'llbeblessedin

5、untoldways.毋庸置疑，最堅(jiān)不可摧的待人原則就是待人如己。友情需要許多品質(zhì)：對(duì)他人無(wú)私，真誠(chéng)的關(guān)懷，當(dāng)他人需要時(shí)傾聽對(duì)方的心聲。當(dāng)你表達(dá)對(duì)朋友的尊重和對(duì)這份友誼的感恩之情時(shí)，對(duì)你的庇佑和祝福也會(huì)通過(guò)各種方式來(lái)到你身邊。Youcan'tknowwhathasgoneonintherudeperson'slifethatday,butyoucanassumethathisorherdayhasn'tgonewell.Maybealovedonelosthisjob,herbossreprimandedherunjustly,he'scomingdownwit

6、htheflu,orshejustfoundoutthatherteenagerisdoingdrugs.也許你的朋友那天表現(xiàn)得非常粗魯無(wú)禮，你也許不知道在他身上到底發(fā)生了什么，但你可以假設(shè)他/她過(guò)得并不開心。也許是愛人失業(yè)了，也許是她的老板訓(xùn)斥她辦事不公，可能是他染了流感，抑或是她剛發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的孩子在吸毒。Whateverthecauseoftherudeness,youdon'thavetoaccentuatetheproblem.Akindwordoragentle,understandingsmilemayhelpthepersonmorethanreturnedrudeness

7、would.無(wú)論是什么理由讓他/她如此野蠻無(wú)禮，你也不需要去強(qiáng)調(diào)人家的錯(cuò)誤。比起同樣粗魯?shù)男袨?，用一句友好的問候、一個(gè)善解人意的笑容作為回應(yīng)，更能幫助他們。2. Consideringfoesasfriends視敵為友Afriendlooksafteryourowngood,isattachedtoyoubyaffection,andentertainsothersentimentsofesteem.Ontheotherhand,afoeissomeonewhoisn'tinterestedinyourwell-being.朋友會(huì)照顧你的利益，因?yàn)楸舜说那楦卸匾曋С帜?，認(rèn)真對(duì)待你的情

8、緒。相反，敵人不會(huì)在意你的幸福Yetsomestudentsviewtheirteachersasenemies.However,astudent'ssuccessinschoolpartlydependsontheteacher'seffectivenessintheclassroom.Insteadofbeinganenemy,ateacherwhocorrectsyouandhelpsyoutoachievecanbethebestfriendyoueverhad.有些學(xué)生把他們的老師視為敵人。但是一個(gè)學(xué)生在學(xué)校里的成功部分是取決于老師在課堂上的成效。不要把他們當(dāng)敵人，幫

9、助你糾正錯(cuò)誤取得成功的老師應(yīng)該是你擁有的最好的朋友！Thiskindofthinking,alongwithalittleattitudeadjustment,helpsyoutoconvertfoestofriends,andbothofyouarebetteroff.這種思維方式伴隨你態(tài)度上的轉(zhuǎn)變，會(huì)幫助你將敵化友，而你們雙方也會(huì)感覺舒服很多。3. Makingfriendsbybeinganoptimist樂觀達(dá)人廣交好友Doyouenjoybeingaroundapessimist,someonewhoisgenerallydescribedasbeingabletobrightenu

10、paroomjustbyleavingit?Theanswerisobvious.Mostpeopleprefertobearoundpeoplewhobelievethattomorrowisgoingtobebetterthantoday,ratherthanpeoplewhobelievethattodayisevenworsethanyesterday.你喜歡和一個(gè)悲觀主義者呆在一起嗎？那種一離開房間大伙兒就開心地不得了的人？答案顯而易見。大多數(shù)人愿意和相信明天會(huì)更好的人交朋友，而不是那些哀嘆今天比昨天更糟的人。Optimistsspreadcheerwherevertheygoand

11、makeothersfeelgoodaboutthemselves.That'saguaranteedwaytomakefriends.樂觀達(dá)人們所到之處都能傳播歡笑，也使他人喜歡自己。這是結(jié)交朋友的一個(gè)保證條件哦！4. Capturingthepleasingpersonality培養(yǎng)討人喜歡的個(gè)性Virtuallyeverytimeyousaythatso-and-sohas“charisma,”you'rereallytalkingaboutso-and-so'sgreatpersonality.Whenhewalksintoaroom,hehasapresenc

12、enotjustlooksthatattractsattentionfrompeoplearoundhim.Orwhenshe'sinacrowd,yousoonhearasoftbuzzcomingfromtheareawheresheis.事實(shí)上，當(dāng)你每次贊美某某有風(fēng)范氣質(zhì)時(shí)，你其實(shí)就是在談?wù)撍匀说膫€(gè)人魅力。當(dāng)他走進(jìn)房間，他的存在（不單單是他的長(zhǎng)相）就會(huì)吸引在場(chǎng)的人?；蛘呤羌词巩?dāng)她在蜂擁的人群中，你也能很快聽到其悅耳的聲音從她所在的地方傳來(lái)。Howdoyoudevelopapleasingpersonality?Herearesomestepsyoucantake:如何才能使培養(yǎng)

13、討人喜歡的性格呢？下面有幾個(gè)步驟：Smilewhenyouseesomeone.Youdon'thavetogiveawidegrinjustapleasant,friendlysmile.遇到他人時(shí)微笑。你不需要哈哈大笑，只需要一個(gè)愉悅友好的微笑。Speakinapleasant,upbeattoneofvoice.Talktopeopleasiftheyaregoodfriends,eveniftheydon'treallyfallintothatcategoryyet.用積極向上的語(yǔ)氣和人交談。說(shuō)話時(shí)把每個(gè)人看成你的朋友，即使他們根本還算不上是你的朋友。Takeacour

14、seinpublicspeaking.Theabilitytoexpresssources.yourselfattractsfavorableattentionfrommany進(jìn)修公共演講課程。表達(dá)能力會(huì)使你吸引到四面八方的注Developasenseofhumor.Pickupacoupleofjokebooks.Thismakesyoualittlemoreoutgoingandfriendly.Whenyoucombinethatqualitywiththeabilitytoexpressyourselfbeforeagroup,yourconfidencegrows.培養(yǎng)自己的幽默感。選擇幾本笑話書，這會(huì)使你更加開朗和友好。當(dāng)你把這樣的品質(zhì)和表達(dá)能力在一群人面前展現(xiàn)出來(lái)時(shí)，你的自信就會(huì)提升。5. Don'tcriticizeunjustly不要不公正地批判他人Insteadofbeingeagertodishoutcriticismallthetime,takethehumane,sensibleapproach.Lookforthegoodinotherpeople.Encouragethem.Buildthemup.不要總是急于將你對(duì)朋友的批評(píng)一股腦兒倒出來(lái)，試試采用更親切也更理智的方式。試