【素養(yǎng)閱讀】：怎樣拒絕別人

怎樣拒絕別人讀有所獲Sometimesyourfriendsmayaskyoutodosomethingbad.Followthesestepstolearntosayno.1.Lookatthepersonseriously.Saynoinafirmbutpolitevoice.Keepcalm.Haveaconfidentattitude（態(tài)度）.Letthepersonknowthatyourmindismadeup.Letthepersonknowyouwillnotbackdown.2.Givereasonsforsayingno.Explainwhyyouwon’tdowhatthepersonwants.Youmightpointoutthattheactionbreaksaruleorlaw.Youmightsaythatyoupromisedyourparentsnottoactinaparticular（特定的）way.Youmightsaythatyoudon’twanttoputyourhealthatrisk.Sharingyourreasonsforsayingnomightactuallyhelptheotherpersonrethinktheaction.3.Matchyouractionstoyourwords.Makesureyourfaceshowsthatyouareserious.Donotsmile—thelistenermaynottakeyouseriously.Heorshemaynotbelieveyourwords.4.Walkaway.It’sokaytowalkaway.Tellhimorherthatthereisnothingelsetodiscuss.Ifheorshecontinues,saygoodbyeandwalkaway.練有所得1.Inwhatwaycan’tyouletthepersonknowthatyourmindismadeup?A.Lookatthepersonseriously.B.Saynoinafirmbutpolitevoice.C.Keepsmilingpolitelyallthetime.D.Haveaconfidentattitude.2.Whichofthefollowingisnotareasonforsayingno?A.Theactionbreaksaruleorlaw.B.Youpromisednottoactinthatway.C.Youdon’twanttoputyourhealthatrisk.D.Youarehelpinghimorherrethinktheaction.3.Howcanyouhelptheotherpersonrethinkhisorheraction?A.Bymatchingyouractionstowords.B.Bylettinghimbelieveyourwords.C.Bygivingreasonsforsayingno.D.Bylookingatthepersonseriously.4.Ifapersoncontinuestoaskyoutodothethingyoudon’twanttodo,youcan______.A.lookatthepersonseriouslyB.saysorryC.givereasonsD.walkaway思有所悟Whatisyourwaytosayno?__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________視野拓展I’mgood.表拒絕當(dāng)別人請我們吃東西時(shí)，如果想吃就說Yes,please；不想吃，就說No,thanks。除了這么表達(dá)之外，還有另一種表達(dá)方式。例如，如果有一個(gè)朋友與你分享食物，出于各種原因你不打算吃，就可以說I’mgood.(我就不吃了吧。）另外，如果有人主動(dòng)向你提供幫助，問“需要幫忙嗎?”，而你想婉拒，則可以說I’mgood.（我可以的，不需要了。）答案解析：本文是一篇說明文，說明了拒絕別人的方法步驟。1.C細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第二段和第四段可知，保持禮貌的微笑不能讓別人知道你心意已決，因此C項(xiàng)正確。2.D細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第三段可知，幫助他人重新思考他的行為不是拒絕別人的原因，而是結(jié)果，因此選擇D項(xiàng)。3.C細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第三段可知，幫助他人重新思考他的行為的方法是說出拒絕的原因，因此C項(xiàng)正確。4.D細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第五段可知，如果一個(gè)人還是堅(jiān)持要求你做不想做的事，你可以走開，因此D項(xiàng)正確。思有所悟Forme,Iusuallygivesomerea