《跨文化交際》課件-Chapter3（最終版）

跨文化交際與禮儀InterculturalCommunicationandEtiquette

Chapter3VerbalCommunicationCONTENTSWarm-upActivitiesImportantCulturalPointsExercisesRelatedCulturalResourcesWarm-upActivitiesPart1Warm-upActivitiesVideoWatchingandDiscussionVideoClip1:WatchingaVideoClipandhaveadiscussionaboutthefollowingquestions:51.Wasthemothersatisfiedwiththeboyfriend?2.What'swrongwiththeboyfriend'stablemanners?CulturalPointsLearningPart2Part2CulturalPointsLearningLearnhowtomakeaconversationLearnhowtobeavisitor/hostProperwaytoshowgratitudeandapologyLearnhowtoaddresspeopleLearnthedifferencesbetweenChineseandEnglishcompliments8

3.1Introduction---VerbalCommunication

DefinitionofVCVCtakesplacewhen

VCtakesplacewhen

VCreferstothecommunicationthatiscarriedouteitherinoralorinwrittenformwiththeuseofwords.universitystudentsarecomposinganarticle,finishingaprofessor’sassignmentoncampus,theemployeesarewritingareportttotheirmanagersinacompanybyemail.peoplearechattingwiththeirfriends,discussinganissueinagroup,ormakingapublicspeech.

VCtakesplacewhen

9Howtoaddresspeople?1.PersonalPronouns2.PersonalNames3.PopularAddressTerms4.RelationAddressTerms5.PostandRankAddressTerms6.HonorificAddressTerms7.KinshipTerms3.2FormsofAddresspersonalpronounsChinesetwoforms:你、您personalpronounsareseldomusedingreetingsthefirstpersonpronounisseldomusedinChineseEnglishoneform：youpersonalpronounsaremorewidelyusedingreetingsWhileinEnglishthefirstpronounismoreoftenused3.2FormsofAddressNames:asurname(familyname)/agivennameHeXianguAndrewLewis

surnamegivennamesurnamegivennameprimitivesocietyXia/ShangDynastyGivennamescameintobeingbeforesurnames.collectivismindividualism3.2FormsofAddresspersonalnames12SummaryofaddressingpeopleChineseEnglishFormalRelationship/SituationSurname+TitleTitle+SurnameNeutralRelationship/SituationSurname+TitleTitle+SurnameGivenNameCloseRelationship/InformalSituationGivenNameGivenName3.2FormsofAddress13Tips:英語(yǔ)里“副”的表達(dá)

3.2FormsofAddress

學(xué)術(shù)頭銜的“副”職稱，常用associate表示。如：副教授

associateprofessor

副研究員associateresearchfellow

副審判長(zhǎng)associatejudge

副主任醫(yī)師

associatedoctor行政頭銜以“副”字的表示副職的行政職務(wù)頭銜，可用vice、deputy表達(dá)。在實(shí)際使用時(shí)究竟選用哪個(gè)，純屬搭配習(xí)慣。一般來說，Vice比Deputy的搭配級(jí)別要高。如：Vicepresident/premier/chairman/minister/governor搭配；Deputydirector/chief/head/secretary/dean/mayor搭配。學(xué)術(shù)頭銜

PopularAddressTermsChinese同志師傅老師先生女士小姐美女帥哥EnglishMadamMiss/Ms./Mrs.Mr.Sir3.2FormsofAddressRelationAddressTermsChinese同學(xué)師傅老師老板老鄉(xiāng)醫(yī)生EnglishDoctorFatherBossNote:Relationtermsdoesnotnecessarilyreflecttherealrelationship:老師inJinan,Shandong3.2FormsofAddressPostandRankAddressTermsChinese：popularprofessionrespected老師、醫(yī)生、工程師......titles,includingofficialtitles:主席、書記、總理、部長(zhǎng)......Academictitles:教授、院士militarytitles:隊(duì)長(zhǎng)English：FewerProfession:Doctor,Father,BosswithoutLNOfficialtitleswithpopularaddressterm:Mr./Mrs./Ms.+officialtitle:Mr.President,Mrs.Ambassador...Militarytitleswithpopularaddressterm:Mr.Captain,Mr.ColonelAcademictitleswithLN:Dr./ProfessorSmith3.2FormsofAddressHonorificAddressTermsChinese:alargevocabulary先生、同志、老、公+SN/FN楊絳先生、雷鋒同志、錢老、周公解夢(mèng)老師、太太、夫人English：FewerSir，Lady，Madam，Lord+FNorusedaloneindicatingseniorityandhighsocialstatus3.2FormsofAddressKinshipTerms:forbloodrelationsandaffinitiesChinese：4groupsandfictivekinship4groups:paternalgroupmaternalgroupwife'slineaffinalgroupfictivekinshipshortenthepsychologicdistancemakeeachotherfeelesteemedandfriendlyEnglish：nofictivekinshipaddresssistersandbrothersinreligionCallparents'freinds“Auntoruncle“,onlyapplicabletoChildren3.2FormsofAddress3.2FormsofAddress中國(guó)親緣關(guān)系及稱呼圖譜3.3

InitiatingConversationsandConversationTopicTheproblemoftenliesin:ThepredictabilityofthequestionsWhereareyoufrom?/AreyoufromAmerica?HowcanIimprovemyEnglish?Theinvasionofone’sprivacyHowoldareyou?Areyoumarried?/Whereisyourhusbandorwife?Howmuchdoyouearn?Littleattentionpaidtotheanswersalreadygiven20

InitiatingConversationsandConversationTopicYESNOHobbiesHolidaysTheweatherAlocalornationaleventJobsFilms/booksAgeMoney/SalaryHealthFamily3.3

InitiatingConversationsandConversationTopic3.4

Greeting,VisitingandPartingGreeting,VisitingandPartingGoodmorning/afternoon/evening.Howareyou?Howarethingsgoing?Howareyougettingon?Howarethings(withyou)?How’severything?How’slife?Hello.Hey./Hi.GreetingWhereareyougoing?

你上哪去？Wherehaveyoubeen?你去哪里啦？Haveyouhadyourmeal?

吃過了嗎？ChineseexpressionsIt’snoneofyourbusiness.Westernexpressions3.4.1

Greeting3.4.2Invitation（ChinaV.S.TheWest）DifferencesInthewestInChinaInvitationExpectationsboththehusbandandwifeonlythehusbandorwifeDeclininganInvitationNodetailedexplanationsMoredetailedexplanationTraditionsforMealsProperquantityLargequantityDiningOutHabitssharethecostofthemealequallyamongthem,togoDutch,orsplitthebilltheonewhoinviteseveryoneshouldpayforthemealGenuineV.S.falseinvitation“Let’sgettogethersoon!”It’sgoodseeingyou.IwillinviteyoutotealaterToconvincetheinviterthatthereisreallysth.ImportanttobedoneI’msorry,Ican’tgetaway.Iamtiedupthewholeweek.I’malreadybusythatnight.WhichOneisGenuineinvitation?Why？Lily:It'snicetalkingtoyou,butIahvetogorightnow.Peter:Ok,Perhapswecanmeetsometimesoon.Lily:Thatsoundsgood.Whynotdropinsometime?Peter：Great.Seeyoulater.Lily:YouaremovingtoShanghainextmonth?Shallwehaveafamilyget-togetherforadinner?Peter:Yeah.Soniceofyou.We'dloveto.Lily:Whatabout6pmthisSaturdayatmyhome?Peter：OK.Seeyouthen.263.4.3

Parting

WhatarethedifferencesinpartingbetweenChineseandEnglishcultures?3.4.3PartingQuestionPartingWesterners:Acoupleofminutes’smalltalkWell,it’sbeenlovelytoseeyouagain,butImustbegoingsoon.Ihopewe’llbeabletogettogetheragainbeforelong…Thankyouforalovelyevening.Imustnotholdyouanylonger.Seetheguesttothedoorandsay“Thankyouforcoming.”Chinese:abruptleave-takingI’mleavingnow.Foranimportantguest,seehim/hertothebuildinggate,oreventothebusstopandsay“請(qǐng)慢走”，“請(qǐng)走好”,“不遠(yuǎn)送了”，“有空再來”.Sometimesnotgobackuntiltheguestsisoutofsight3.4.3Parting3.5

GratitudeandApologyGratitudeWesterners:generouswiththeirthanks,toalotofpeople,includeintimatepeople,forthefavortheygetwhetherit'ssignificantornotChinese:notasgenerousaswesternerswiththeirthanks,tonottoomanypeople,especiallynottointimatepeopleGratitudeChinese:seldomValueCollectivismIntegrateselfintoagrouporcommunity.gratitudeandapologybetweenintimatepeoplewillmakebothpartiesfeelshyandmaycauseestrangementWesterners:ubiquitousValueindividualism3.5

GratitudeandApologyThanks.Manythanks.Thankyouverymuch.Thankyouverymuchindeed.Ireallydon’tknowhowtothankyouenough.Thedegreeofgratitudeincrease3.5GratitudeandApologyApology:1Areasandfrequencyfortheuseofapology2EnglishandChineseexpressionsofapology3Formulaicresponsestoapology3.5

GratitudeandApology3.5

GratitudeandApologyComparatively,WesternpeoplemakemoreapologiesthanChinesepeopledo.Theywillapologizewhenevertheythinktheymayinvadeothers’privacy.Theypaylessattentiontopowerorrankdistinction.Theymayapologizebothtopeoplewithlesspowerandcloserelationship.Thereforeitisnotunusualtoheareldergenerationsapologizetoyoungergenerations,orasuperiortoaninferior.Evenifthetroubleisnotsoseriousatall,theywillapologize,forexample,theymayapologizeiftheycoughorsneezebysaying:“Excuseme.”AreasandfrequencyfortheuseofapologyEnglishandChineseexpressionsofapologyEnglishExcuseme.I'msorry./Sorryaboutthat.I'mvery/so/terribly/awfully/extremelysorryforthat.Ican'ttellyouhowsorryIam.Ibegyourpardon(for…)./Pardonme./Athousandpardonsfor...Pleaseforgiveme(for...).Iapologize.Imustapologizeformyrudeness/fault/mistake,etc.Imustbegtoapologize/makeanapologyfor...Maylofferyoumyprofoundestapologies?MayIofferyoumysincerestapologiesforthewrongsI'vedonetoyou.Chinese對(duì)不起。不好意思。請(qǐng)?jiān)彛徑猓ㄎ业倪^失／魯莽／錯(cuò)誤／粗心）我道歉。難以表達(dá)內(nèi)心的抱歉。向你表達(dá)／致以深深的歉意。為我的過失／魯莽／錯(cuò)誤／粗心表示最真誠(chéng)的歉意！FormulaicResponsestoapologiesEnglishItdoesn'tmatteratall.Nevermind(aboutthat).Noharmdone.Noproblem.Forgetit．Pleasedon'tworry.That'squiteallright.Iquiteunderstand.It'snotyourfault.It'snothing.Thereisnoreasontoapologize.It'sreallynotnecessary.Chinese沒關(guān)系。不要緊。沒事。我理解。不是你的過錯(cuò)。不用道歉／自責(zé)。3.5

GratitudeandApologyComparetheChineseexpression“沒關(guān)系”andEnglishexpression“Nevermind”and“Itdoesn'tmatter?-----TheChineseexpression“沒關(guān)系”or“不要緊”couldberesponsetobothgratitudeandapologyinChinese.However,theycouldnotbetranslatedinto“Itdoesn’tmatter”or“Nevermind”whichareconsideredtheresponsesonlytoapologyinEnglish.3.6

ComplimentsandComplimentResponsesComplimentandcomplimentresponsesB.SocialfunctionsofcomplimentsC.DifferencesbetweenChinesecomplimentsandEnglishcompliments(semanticformulaandsyntacticformula)373.6.1Socialfunctionsofcompliments1.Tocreateorreinforcesolidarity2.Togreetpeople3.Toexpressthanksorcongratulations4.Toencourage5.Tosoftencriticism6.Tostartaconversation7.Toovercomeembarrassment3.6.2ThedifferencesofcomplimentbetweenChineseandEnglishThedifferencesofcomplimentbetweenChineseandEnglishInChinaInthewestTopicinnerbeautyoutcomesTargetPeopleofhigherstatusbidirectionalPersonalPronoun2ndpersonpronoun.1stpersonpronounSemanticFormulapositivewordsexpressingcomplimentsaremainlyadjectives,adverbsandverbs.ahighlyrestrictedsetofadjectivesandverbsSyntacticFormula9categories39TheSemanticFormulaThiswasagreatmeal.Youlooksonicetoday.Youdidagoodjob.Ilikeyourhaircut.Iloveyourglasses.IreallyenjoyedyourclassYourskirtisverypretty.Thisroomisreallygood.You’rereallyanexperiencedteacher.Youdidthejobverywell.Youtreatpeoplesincerely.Iespeciallylikethecolorofyourblouse.Youdeservebeingpraised.Englishcompliments:AdjectivesVerbsChinesecompliments:AdjectivesAdverbVerbs3.6.2ThedifferencesofcomplimentbetweenChineseandEnglish

ItiscommonforamantoinformallygiveawomancomplimentsonherlooksorclothingItistakenasakindofflirtationifamancomplimentsawomanChinesepeoplecomplimenteachothermuchlessfrequentlythanwesternersdo.Chinesepeopletrytodrawalinebetweencomplimentandflattery.Chinesepeopleinterpretother’spositivecomplimentsasarequestforpossessingsomething.Attention:41ResponseFormulasofEandCcomplimentsAmericanEnglishA:Thisisreallyanicesweater.

B:I’mgladyoulikeit.A:Youdidagoodjob.

B:Thankyou/Thanks.Chinese:A:Yoursweaterisverygood.

B:Iboughtitonlyfortenyuan.A:Youdidthejobverywell.

B:That’stheresultofjointefforts./There’sstillmuchroomforimprovement.3.742

VisitingandDining3.7.1Visiting43Businessvisiting:

arrangethetimeinadvancecomestraighttothepointSocialvisiting:(moreflexible)I’mcomingtoseeyouthisafternoon.(*Implication:“YoumuststayathomethisafternoonbecauseI’mcomingtoseeyou.”)CanIcomeandseeyouthisafternoon?VisitingandDiningVisiting1.differentwaystorequestforavisitingInwestern:questionInChina:statement2.AbigmealV.S.SmallMealDiningWhopays45

Ihaven’tseenyouforalongtime.IwaswonderingwhetherIcouldcomeroundtovisityousometime.I’dliketocomeandseeyousometime.Wouldyoubefreeoneafternoonnextweek?Mr.ZhangandIwouldliketocomeandvisityou.WoulditbeconvenientforustocomeWednesdayevening?Somesuitableexpressions:46AdvancenoticeTakeofftheout-doorclothingimmediately,ifnot,theywouldconsideryoustayonlyafewminutes.Guests:takingoffthecoat,beaskedtositdownthehost:mayoffersomethingtodrinkliketeaorcoffeeThingstobeminded(Aboutvisiting)IntheWestNotdrinkteaorcoffee,notgiveanyDrinkteaorcoffee,drinkitall;finishit,offeragainInChinaThehost(foreigner):offeracupofteaTheChinese:refuseoutofpolitenessandwantthehosttooffermoretimesThehost:notmakemoreofferTheChinese:notsohospitable;acceptthecup,nottodrinkitallThehost:feeloffended47Thingstobeminded(Aboutdrink)Ifguestsareinvitedforameal…Chinese:prepareaverylargenumberofdishesWesterns:tendtorelatethemealsizemoreaccuratelytothepeople’sappetitesChinese:constantlyputthebestpiecesoffoodonthevisitor’splateWesterns:leavetheguesttohelphimself/herselfanddonotkeepurginghim/hertoeatmoreInChina:acceptabletoleaveunwantedfoodontheplateIntheWest:impolite48Thingstobeminded(AboutFood-offeringdifferences)3.7.2Dining

1Differenttraditionsformeals2Differentdiningouthabits3.7.2Dining(DifferentTraditionsforMeals)3.7.2Dining(DifferentTraditionsforMeals)3.7.2Dining(DifferentDiningoutHabits)Whowillpayforthebill?Sharethecostofthemeal/splitthebill;Wheninapub,usually,eachpersoninthegroupwilltaketurnsbuyingaround.In

thewest:Theinviterwillpayforthebill;Whennobodyactsasthehost,everyonemayfightoverpayingforthebill.InChinaPayingforone’sownsharemeansequalitybetweenfriends.Onlypayingforone’sownsharemightberegardedasbeingmean,miserlyorselfish.ExercisesPart3Part3ExercisesII.ComprehensionCheck_________1.WecanaddressEricSmith，whoisateacher,asTeacherSmith．________2.ChinesehospitalitytowardtheWesternersisalwaysgreatlyappreciated．________3.”Thankyouforcoming!”isatypicalexpressionusedbyWesternhostswhentheguestsjustarrived．________4.AdjectivesandverbsareoftenusedtoconveycomplimentmessageinEnglish,whileadjectives,adverbsandverbsareoftenusedinChinese.______5.ComplimentsonothersbelongingsaresometimesanindirectwayofrequestinAmericanculture.II.ComprehensionCheckDecidewhetherthefollowingstatementsaretrue(T)orfalse(F).FTFFFPart3ExercisesII.ComprehensionCheck_________6.ChinesepeoplegivemorecomplimentsindailylifethanAmericans.._________7.Americanstendtobeself-effacingintheircomplimentresponses._________8.Don’ttakeoffence--gettingtheformofaddress“wrong”israrelyintendedtobeoffensive._________9.Allculturesrequireandvaluepoliteness,butthewaysinwhichpolitenessisachievedmayvarysignificantly.________10.SometimestheChinesewayofshowingmodestymaybeconsideredasfishingforcompliments..FTTFTPart3ExercisesIII.VocabularyIII.VocabularyCompletethefollowingsentenceswiththewordsgivenbelowandeachwordcanbeusedonlyonce.disgustmistrustbeckonverbaleffacecomplimentaddressabruptelicittoken1Heshowedhis

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ofourgratitude.complimentedaddressedabruptelicittoken1.恭敬不如從命。2.百聞不如一見3.來而不往非禮也

4.有朋自遠(yuǎn)方來不亦樂乎IV.TranslationTranslatethefollowingChinesephrasesintoEnglishandviceversa1.Obedienceisbetterthanpoliteness2.Seeingisbelieving.3.Courtesyononesideonlylastsnotlong4.Isitdelightfultohavefriendscomingfromafar?Part3ExercisesIV.TranslationPart3ExercisesIV.Translation5.Amissisasgoodasamile.6.Aleopardcannotchangeitsspots.7.Abirdinthehandisworthtwointhebush.8.Nodiscord,noconcord失之毫厘謬以千里積習(xí)難改一鳥在手勝過雙鳥在林。8.不打不成交Part3ExercisesV.Activities1.Supposeyouarepreparingforpost-graduationexamination.AteacherofyoursisintroducingyoutotheDirectorofUniversityAdmissions.Initiatetheconversationandaskforinformationabouttherequirements.2.AccordingtotheModestyMaximproposedbyLeech,peopleshouldminimizepraiseofselfandmaximizedispraiseofselfwhenaddressingothers.ChineseregardmodestyasoneofthemostimportantvirtuesthereforetherearegreatnumbersofmodestandhonorificaddressformsinChinesewhichareusedwidelybypeople.Pleasegotolibraryorsurftheinternettocollectasmuchinformationaspossibletofillinthetable.Examplesaregiventoyou.稱呼對(duì)象自稱謙稱他稱敬稱中性（平等關(guān)系）自己/他人余、吾、自、己、本人、鄙人、愚、您、閣下你、名字

Part3ExercisesV.Activities3.Pleasegotolibraryorbeonlinetoworkonthedifferencesbetween“gift-giving”and“gift-accepting”inWesterncountries.MakeaPowerPointpresentation.Part3ExercisesVI.CaseAnalysisABritishtouristisvisitingaChinesefamily.TheChinesehostess,CaiHong,introducesherhusbandtotheguest:Chinesehostess:Welcometomyhome.Andthisismyhusband.Britishtourist:Thankyou.It’sapleasuretomeetyou,Mr.Cai.I’mLucyTaylor.Chinesehost:Haveaseat,MadamLucy.Case1:Isthereanyaddressingmistakeinthiscase?Question:Part3ExercisesVI.CaseAnalysis

ThisisatypicalmisunderstandingofdifferentwaystoaddresspeopleinChinesecultureandBritishculture.TheBritishtouristthinksthatCaiHong’ssurnameisherhusband’ssurname,sincesheisunawareofthefactthatinChinawomenstillusetheirownsurnameaftermarriage.CaiHong’shusbandthinksthat“madam”isarespectfultermofaddressforanyfemaleEnglish,unawareofthefactthatinBritainitisusuallyusedbysomeonewhoisprovidingaservicesuchasashopassistanttoacustomerorapolicemantoamemberofthepublicasin“CanIhelpyou,madam?”Itisneverusedasatitlebeforesomeone’sname.Healsomistakesthegivennameforthesurname.Itisadvisableforthemtogettoknowthedifferenceofthewaystoaddressingindifferentcultures.Part3ExercisesVI.CaseAnalysisOnaparty,aChineseshowedaphotoofhiswifetosomeAmericanvisitors.Outofcourtesy,theyallsaid:“Howbeautifulsheis!”Alsooutofpoliteness,themanrepliedwithwhathewouldhavedoneinChineseunderthiscircumstance,“Where!Where!”Quitetakenaback,nobodysaidanythingforamomentuntilthemostingeniousoneamongthevisitorstakinganotherlookatthephoto,said,“Oh,everywhere!”Case2:QuestionsWhatdidtheChineseintendtomeanbyreplyingwith“Where!Where!”?HowdidtheAmericansunderstandthereply?WhatwouldaWesternersaytorespondtoasimilarcompliment?

Part3ExercisesV.CaseAnalysisThisisatypicalmisunderstandingaboutdifferentcomplimentandcomplimentresponseinChineseandAmericanculture.InChineseculturebeingmodestishighlyvaluedandChinesepeopletendtoeffacethemselvesinwordsalthoughtheydofeelcomfortableaboutthecompliment.Inaddition,itisatabooinChinatopraiseafriend’swifewhileitissomekindofsocialpolitenessinAmericanculture.SowhentheAmericanvisitorcomplimentedthattheChinesefriend’swifewasbeautiful,outofcourtesy,theChinesereplied“Where,where”,whichmeans“youaresokindtosayso,"inEnglish.WhileAmericanstendtoacceptthecomplimentsandcouldn’tunderstandChinesemodesty,sohefeltconfusedandmisunderstoodtheChineseaskedhimtopointoutwherethebeautywereandanswered"everywhere”.TheWesternwouldacceptthecomplimentbysaying“Thankyou.Itisverykindofyoutosayso.”O(jiān)r“Yes,sheis.”Analysis:Part3ExercisesⅦ.VideoWatching《孫子從美國(guó)來》RelatedResourcesPart4Howtorespondto“Howareyou?”“買單”inEnglishHowtorespondto“Howareyou?”Basically,