對婚姻的看法英文

對婚姻的看法英文篇一：Hello,everybody,howareyou?Shirleyhere.大家好，你們好嗎？我是Shirley。Inthisvideo,let’stalkaboutmarriage.在這個視頻中，我們來談?wù)摶橐觥o,areyoumarried?那么，你結(jié)婚了嗎？Anddoyouthinkpeopleshouldgetmarriedearly?你覺得人們應(yīng)該盡早結(jié)婚嗎？Youknowforme,I’mmarriedandhavetwochildren.你知道對于我來說，我結(jié)婚了，有兩個孩子。SoyoucanseeIgotmarriedveryearly.所以你可以看到我很早就結(jié)了。ButIdon’tthinkeveryoneshouldgetmarriedearly,但是我不認(rèn)為每個人都要盡早結(jié)婚，becauseinmyopinion,因?yàn)樵谖铱磥?，toahavehappymarriageweneedtofollowtwoprinciples.為了有一個幸福的婚姻，我們要遵循兩個原則。First,makesureyouarereadybothpsychologicallyand

financially.首先，確保你們在心理上和經(jīng)濟(jì)上都準(zhǔn)備好了。youhavetobematureandcapableenoughtostarta

familyandbecomeparents.你必須足夠成熟和有能力組建家庭并成為父母。Second,findtherightperson,第二，找到對的人，youneedtofindapersonwhocanshareandrespectyourvaluesandthoughts,你需要找到一個能夠分享和尊重你的價值觀和想法的人，otherwise,yourlifeaftermarriagewillbeunhappy.否則，你的婚后生活會不幸福。Okay,everybody,thisismyideaaboutmarriage.好，各位，這就是我關(guān)于婚姻的看法。Seeyounexttime.Byebye!下次見。再見！

篇二：EveryyearintheUnitedStatesalone,2,077,000couplesmakealegalandspiritualdecisiontospendtherestoftheirlivestogether--Andnottohavesexwithanyoneelse.Ever.Hebuysaring,shebuysadress.Theygoshoppingforallsortsofthings.ShetakeshimtoArthurMurrayforballroom-dancinglessons.Andthebigdaycomes.Andthey'llstandbeforeGodandfamilyandsomeguyherdadoncedidbusinesswith,andthey'llvowthatnothing--notabjectpoverty,notlife-threateningillness,notcompleteanduttermisery--willeverputthetiniestdamperontheireternalloveanddevotion.

每年，僅僅在美國就有207萬7000對情侶在法律上和精神上決定與對方共度一生，而且不搞外遇。絕不。他買好戒指，她購入婚紗。他們一起置辦各種東西，她帶他去ArthurMurray舞蹈教室上課，學(xué)跳交際舞。之后喜事來臨，他們在主和家人，還包括她父親曾經(jīng)的生意伙伴的見證下，發(fā)誓無論發(fā)生何事，無論是一貧如洗還是身患絕癥，抑或是遭遇徹頭徹尾的苦難，都絲毫不會影響他們永恒的愛與忠誠。Eventhoughweknow,statistically,halfofthemwillbedivorcedwithinadecade.即使我們知道，統(tǒng)計表明，一半以上的婚姻維持不到10年。

Ofcourse,theotherhalfwon't,right?They'llkeepforgettinganniversariesandarguingaboutwheretospendholidaysanddebating--Whichwaythetoiletpapershouldcomeoffoftheroll.Andsomeofthemwillevenstillbeenjoyingeachother'scompanywhenneitherofthemcanchewsolidfoodanymore.當(dāng)然，還有另一半人的婚姻尚未終結(jié)，對不對？他們會一直忘記紀(jì)念日，為去哪兒度假而爭吵，互相爭辯廁紙該按什么方向擺。他們中的一些人也會一直享受有對方的陪伴，直到牙齒松動，再也嚼不動固體食物。Andresearcherswanttoknowwhy.Imean,look--itdoesn'ttakeadouble-blind,placebo-controlledstudytofigureoutwhatmakesamarriagenotwork:disrespect,boredom,toomuchtimeonFacebook,havingsexwithotherpeople.Butyoucanhavetheexactoppositeofallofthosethings--respect,excitement,abrokenInternetconnection,mind-numbingmonogamy--andthethingstillcangotohellinahandbasket.So,what'sgoingonwhenitdoesn't?Whatdothefolkswhomakeitallthewaytoside-by-sideburialplotshaveincommon?Whataretheydoingright?Whatcanwelearnfromthem?Andifyou'restillhappilysleepingsolo,whyshouldyoustopwhatyou'redoingandmakeityourlife'sworktofindthatonespecialpersonthatyoucanannoyfortherestofyourlife?研究人員希望知道原因。這并不需要一個雙盲對照組研究來破解婚姻失敗的秘密：互不尊重、厭倦、沉迷臉書，搞外遇。你也可以舉出上述所有的反義詞，互相尊重、新鮮刺激，斷網(wǎng)，麻木的一夫一妻制，但還是搞砸了。所以維系婚姻的究竟是什么？那些成功攜手生同衾、死同穴的伴侶有何共通點(diǎn)？他們做對了哪些？我們能從中學(xué)到什么？如果你是個快樂的單身貴族，為什么一定要放棄現(xiàn)在的生活而畢生投入于找尋那個特別的人，那個你一輩子都覺得很煩的人？Well,researchersspendbillionsofyourtaxdollarstryingtofigurethatout.Theystalkblissfulcouplesandstudytheireverymoveandmannerism.Andtheytrytopinpointwhatitisthatsetsthemapartfromtheirmiserableneighborsandfriends.Anditturnsout,thesuccessstoriesshareafewsimilarities,beyondthattheydon'thavesexwithotherpeople.研究人員花費(fèi)了幾十億納稅人的錢來尋找原因。他們跟蹤調(diào)查美滿的婚姻，研究夫妻間的所有行為和特殊習(xí)慣。他們嘗試精確定位幸福的夫妻與不幸的鄰居朋友們的所有不同之處。結(jié)果發(fā)現(xiàn)，成功的婚姻的確有一些相似之處，而不僅僅是不搞外遇。Forinstance,inthehappiestmarriages,thewifeisthinnerandbetter-lookingthanthehusband.比如說，在幸福的婚姻里，妻子都比丈夫要苗條好看。Obvious.Right?It'sobviousthatthisleadstomaritalbliss,becausewomen--wecareagreatdealaboutbeingthinandgood-looking,whereasmenmostlycareaboutsex,ideally,withwomenwhoarethinnerandbetterlookingthantheyare.Thebeautyofthisresearch,though,isthatnooneissuggestingthatwomenhavetobethintobehappy.Wejusthavetobethinnerthanourpartners.Soinsteadofallthatlaboriousdietingandexercising,wejustneedtowaitforthemtogetfat--Maybebakeafewpies.Thisisgoodinformationtohave,andit'snotthatcomplicated.明顯正確。很明顯這一點(diǎn)是婚姻幸福的原因，因?yàn)榕硕己芸粗厣聿暮兔烂?，然而男人大多在乎性，最好是跟比他們苗條好看的女人。這項研究的妙處在于，沒有人在暗示說女人要瘦才會快樂。只要比伴侶瘦一點(diǎn)兒就行。這樣就不用艱苦鍛煉勉強(qiáng)節(jié)食，我們只要等著自己的男人發(fā)福就好，也許再多烤幾個派。這是很好的消息，也不復(fù)雜。Researchalsosuggeststhatthehappiestcouplesaretheonesthatfocusonthepositives.Forexample:thehappywife.Insteadofpointingoutherhusband'sgrowinggutorsuggestinghegoforarun,shemightsay,"Wow,honey,thankyouforgoingoutofyourwaytomakemerelativelythinner."研究也顯示幸福的夫妻聚焦于事物的積極一面。比如說，一個幸福的妻子，不會指責(zé)丈夫腰圍漸粗，也不會建議他出去跑步，她很可能會說“寶貝，謝謝你已經(jīng)開始努力讓我顯得相對更苗條?！盩hesearecoupleswhocanfindgoodinanysituation."Yeah,itwasdevastatingwhenwelosteverythinginthatfire.Butit'skindofnicesleepingouthereunderthestars.Andit'sagoodthingyou'vegotallthatbodyfattokeepuswarm."這些夫妻能夠在任何情況下都找到好的一面。“這可真是太慘了。我們在火災(zāi)中失去了一切、不過在滿天星斗下熟睡也是一樁美事，而且你剛好還有足夠的脂肪讓我們保暖?！?/p>

Here'saninterestingone.Onestudyfoundthatpeoplewhosmileinchildhoodphotographsarelesslikelytogetadivorce.Thisisanactualstudy,andletmeclarify:theresearcherswerenotlookingatdocumentedself-reportsofchildhoodhappiness,orevenstudyingoldjournals.Thedatawerebasedentirelyonwhetherpeoplelookedhappyintheseearlypictures.Now,Idon'tknowhowoldallofyouare,butwhenIwasakid,yourparentstookpictureswithaspecialkindofcamerathatheldsomethingcalled"film."And,byGod,filmwasexpensive.Theydidn'ttake300shotsofyouinthatrapid-firedigitalvideomodeandthenpickoutthenicest,smiliestonefortheChristmascard.Oh,no.Theydressedyouup,theylinedyouup,andyousmiledforthefuckingcameraliketheytoldyoutooryoucouldkissyourbirthdaypartygoodbye.Butstill,IhaveahugepileoffakehappychildhoodpicturesandI'mgladtheymakemelesslikelythansomepeopletogetadivorce.還有一項有趣的研究。這項研究發(fā)現(xiàn)在童年時期的照片里笑著的人離婚率較低。這是一項真實(shí)的研究，讓我解釋一下：研究人員并不是看文字記錄的童年幸福記錄，或者從前的日記之類。數(shù)據(jù)全部來源于：人們在這些早年的照片中看上去是不是高興。我不清楚在座各位的年齡，但當(dāng)我還是小孩兒時，家長拍照用的是一種特殊的相機(jī)，里面裝著一種叫膠卷的東西。天哪，膠卷這玩意兒真是貴。他們可不是拍上300張，用那種數(shù)碼錄像的幀數(shù)速度，然后再挑上一張最漂亮的，笑得最好的照片放在圣誕卡上。哦不是的。他們把你打扮好，排上隊，然后叫你沖著相機(jī)笑，要不然生日派對直接結(jié)束。即使這樣，我也有一大堆假裝幸福的童年照片，我很慶幸這些照片讓我看起來不那么容易離婚。So,whatelsecanyoudotosafeguardyourmarriage?DonotwinanOscarforbestactress.你還能做什么來守衛(wèi)你的婚姻？不要去贏奧斯卡影后。I'mserious.BettieDavis,JoanCrawford,HalleBerry,HilarySwank,SandraBullock,ReeseWitherspoon--allofthemsingle,soonaftertakinghomethatstatue.TheyactuallycallittheOscarcurse.Itisthemarriagekissofdeathandsomethingthatshouldbeavoided.我是認(rèn)真的。貝蒂.戴維斯、瓊.克勞馥、哈利.貝瑞、希拉里.斯旺克、桑德拉.布洛克、瑞茜.威瑟斯彭，她們所有人在把小金人帶回家后不久都成了單身。真的有種說法叫“奧斯卡詛咒”。這是婚姻的死亡之吻，應(yīng)該極力避免。Andit'snotjustsuccessfullystarringinfilmsthat'sdangerous.Itturnsout,merelywatchingaromanticcomedycausesrelationshipsatisfactiontoplummet.在電影里成功飾演角色不是唯一危險的事情。研究發(fā)現(xiàn)，只是看一部浪漫喜劇就能導(dǎo)致婚姻關(guān)系滿意度直線下降。

Apparently,thebitterrealizationthatmaybeitcouldhappentous,butitobviouslyhasn'tanditprobablyneverwill,makesourlivesseemunbearablygrimincomparison.Andtheoretically,Isupposeifweoptforafilmwheresomeonegetsbrutallymurderedordiesinafierycarcrash,wearemorelikelytowalkoutofthattheaterfeelinglikewe'vegotitprettygood.很明顯，苦澀地意識到片中故事有可能是真的，但尚未也很可能永遠(yuǎn)不會發(fā)生在自己身上，這種比較認(rèn)識讓我們的婚姻生活看起來更加難以忍受了。理論上說，假設(shè)我們選擇看一部電影，角色被殘忍的殺害或者死于慘烈的交通事故，我們走出電影院時感覺可能還相當(dāng)好。Drinkingalcohol,itseems,isbadforyourmarriage.Yeah.Ican'ttellyouanymoreaboutthatonebecauseIstoppedreadingitattheheadline.Buthere'sascaryone:divorceiscontagious.That'sright,whenyouhaveaclosecouplefriendsplitup,itincreasesyourchancesofgettingadivorceby75percent.Now,Ihavetosay,Idon'tgetthisoneatall.MyhusbandandIhavewatchedquiteafewfriendsdividetheirassetsandthenstrugglewithbeingourageandsingleinanageofsextingandViagraandeHarmony.AndI'mthinkingthey'vedonemoreformymarriagethanalifetimeoftherapyevercould.飲酒似乎是對婚姻不利的。是的，我沒什么可告訴你們的，因?yàn)槲易x到這句話接下來就不想讀了。但這還有一條可怕的事：離婚會傳染。沒錯，如果你的好朋友分手了，你自己離婚的可能性會增加75%。這條一點(diǎn)兒也不適用于我自己。我丈夫和我目睹了一些朋友分家產(chǎn)，在這個充斥色情短信和偉哥還有相親網(wǎng)站的時代，在我們這個年齡掙扎著獨(dú)身生活。我覺得這些朋友的經(jīng)歷對于我自己婚姻的幫助比終身治療的幫助還要大。Sonowyoumaybewondering:Whydoesanyonegetmarriedever?Well,theUSfederalgovernmentcountsmorethanathousandlegalbenefitstobeingsomeone'sspouse.Alistthatincludesvisitationrightsinjail,buthopefully,you'llneverneedthatone.Butbeyondtheprofoundfederalperks,marriedpeoplemakemoremoney.We'rehealthier,physicallyandemotionally.Weproducehappier,morestableandmoresuccessfulkids.Wehavemoresexthanoursupposedlyswingingsinglefriends,believeitornot.Weevenlivelonger,whichisaprettycompellingargumentformarryingsomeoneyoulikealotinthefirstplace.你們可能會問人們?yōu)槭裁匆Y(jié)婚？美國聯(lián)邦政府列舉出上千條法律上的結(jié)成配偶的好處。包括監(jiān)獄探視權(quán)，但愿大家永遠(yuǎn)別用到這一條。除了各種各樣的政策福利，已婚人士收入更高。無論是肉體上還是精神上都更健康。生養(yǎng)出來的孩子也更快樂、情緒更穩(wěn)定，更成功。已婚人士比起他們看似放縱的單身朋友有更多性愛，信不信由你。已婚人士更長壽——要是結(jié)婚的話這是個很有力的理由，但前提是你要非常喜歡你的對象。Now,ifyou'renotcurrentlyexperiencingthejoyofthejointtaxreturn,Ican'ttellyouhowtofindachore-lovingpersonoftheapproximatelyidealsizeandattractiveness,whoprefershorrormoviesanddoesn'thavealotoffriendshoveringonthebrinkofdivorce,butIcanonlyencourageyoutotry,becausethebenefits,asI'vepointedout,aresignificant.Thebottomlineis:whetheryou'reinitoryou'researchingforit,Ibelievemarriageisaninstitutionworthpursuingandprotecting.SoIhopeyou'llusetheinformationI'vegivenyoutodaytoweighyourpersonalstrengthsagainstyourownriskfactors.如果你目前沒有享受到聯(lián)合納稅申報的喜悅，