“好夫妻范文

1、“好夫妻范文 每場雅思考試之后，第一時(shí)間分享本場考試雅思A類大作文的范文權(quán)威解析。歡迎每周鎖定。 2018年9月15日 雅思大作文題目 “In many countries today, women as well as men work full-time, so it is logical for women and men to share household tasks equally. To what extent do you agree or disagree? Give reasons for your answer and include any relevant examp

2、les from your own knowledge or experience.” 解析&審題 本次考題是xx年5月1日的原題重現(xiàn)。 本題問的是：現(xiàn)在女性和男性都一樣全職工作，那么在家里，夫妻是不是應(yīng)該共同分擔(dān)家務(wù)呢？我們應(yīng)該注意，原題里有一個(gè)詞 “l(fā)ogical”，因此準(zhǔn)確地說，本題問的是，你是否同意“從邏輯上講，夫妻是否應(yīng)該分擔(dān)家務(wù)”這個(gè)觀點(diǎn)？ 對(duì)于本題，我們的寫作思路可以是這樣的：我同意夫妻應(yīng)該分擔(dān)家務(wù)，首先由于妻子也有事業(yè)，如果所有家務(wù)都由妻子承擔(dān)，那必然會(huì)影響她的事業(yè)發(fā)展；其次，如果夫妻共同承擔(dān)家務(wù)，會(huì)促進(jìn)家庭和諧，對(duì)于在這樣家庭成長起來的孩子也有好處；最后，夫妻共同承擔(dān)家務(wù)也是

3、兩性平等的具體體現(xiàn)。這是多數(shù)同學(xué)選擇的寫作思路。 當(dāng)然，我們可以選擇另外一條道路（也許是很少同學(xué)會(huì)選擇的道路）：首先回應(yīng)題目的要求，承認(rèn)“從邏輯上講”夫妻應(yīng)該分擔(dān)家務(wù)，然后轉(zhuǎn)折回來，論證共同分擔(dān)家務(wù)并不一定是家庭幸福的保證，兩性平等也不一定體現(xiàn)在分擔(dān)家務(wù)方面。和多數(shù)同學(xué)選擇的論證思路相比，這一思路可能更新穎，也更能體現(xiàn)批判性思維這一雅思高分作文特征。 以下范文就是按照這個(gè)思路來寫的，供各位烤鴨參考。 老師筆記 01 With dual-ine families, it seems logic that thedomesticburdens should be equally shouldere

4、das an issue ofgender equality as well as happy relationships. These days, there is evidence that thegender gapin housework has been narrowed gradually. Men are increasingly getting involved in housework, particularly if both men and women are employed in full-time jobs. For example, some husbands a

5、re having their share of household duties, such as cleaning, cooking, washing, and looking after children.In appearance, the zero gender gap is being a reality, in the sense that, since both men and women are equally the familysbread-earnersworking from nine to five, both should share the housework

6、equally. 對(duì)于雙收入家庭，家庭負(fù)擔(dān)應(yīng)該作為一個(gè)兩性平等和幸福關(guān)系的問題而平等地承擔(dān)，這似乎是合乎邏輯的?，F(xiàn)在，有證據(jù)表明家務(wù)勞動(dòng)的性別差距逐漸縮小。男性越來越多地參與家務(wù)勞動(dòng)，尤其是當(dāng)男性和女性都從事全職工作的時(shí)候。例如，一些丈夫分擔(dān)家務(wù)，如打掃衛(wèi)生、做飯、洗衣和照看孩子。男人和女人都在朝九晚五地供養(yǎng)家庭，因此家務(wù)應(yīng)該分擔(dān)，在這個(gè)意義上，零性別差異表面上正在成為現(xiàn)實(shí)。 解析 （1）本段直接進(jìn)入正題，討論在夫妻雙方都在工作的前提下，分擔(dān)家務(wù)是非常符合邏輯的，而且事實(shí)上好像也的確是按照這個(gè)邏輯在發(fā)生。本段回應(yīng)的是題目中“夫妻分擔(dān)家務(wù)是符合邏輯的”這個(gè)觀點(diǎn)。 （2） domestic 家庭（

7、內(nèi)）的 （3） as an issue of. 作為.問題 （4） gender gap 性別差異 （5） in appearance 表面上看 （6） bread-owner 掙錢養(yǎng)家的人 02 For happy relationships, however, men and women equally sharing the housework is often not as important as what it seems.Ironically, the main reason for thepersistenceof inequality at home may be women

8、 themselves. Even in relationships in which the dual-earner couple aims to share the domestic burdens, most women would like to keep their men away from traditional tasks and childcare-giving activities. So, despite the bestintentionsof men, their women might think that, although sharing household c

9、hores may do no harm, it may do little to contribute to a happy marriage. On this issue, there may be no need to seek 50/50 gender equality because men will always be men and women will always be women.Given thatboth males and females are created equal, the two genders are not meant to share housewo

10、rk equally.Believe it or not, most women at heart may not expect this to happen. 然而，對(duì)于幸福的關(guān)系，男女平等分擔(dān)家務(wù)往往并不像看上去的那么重要。具有諷刺意味的是，家庭中不平等現(xiàn)象長期存在可能主要是女性自己的原因。即使在雙收入夫婦愿意分擔(dān)家庭負(fù)擔(dān)的關(guān)系中，大多數(shù)女性也希望讓她們的男人遠(yuǎn)離傳統(tǒng)的家務(wù)和照看孩子的工作。所以，盡管男人的本意是好的，但她們的妻子可能會(huì)認(rèn)為，雖然分擔(dān)家務(wù)活不會(huì)有什么害處，但卻基本無助于幸福婚姻。在這個(gè)問題上，也許沒有必要追求50/50的兩性平等，因?yàn)槟腥擞肋h(yuǎn)是男人，女人永遠(yuǎn)是女人。誠然，男

11、女生而平等，但這并不意味著他們必須平等地分擔(dān)家務(wù)。不管你信不信，大多數(shù)女性內(nèi)心或許也不這樣期待。 解析 （1）本段表達(dá)對(duì)“分擔(dān)家務(wù)”的看法：分擔(dān)家務(wù)并不一定帶來婚姻幸福，并認(rèn)為多數(shù)女性并不真正期待與丈夫平分家務(wù)。這個(gè)觀點(diǎn)不一定正確，但肯定與多數(shù)同學(xué)的觀點(diǎn)不一樣，因此從某種程度上會(huì)給閱卷人帶來一定的新鮮感。當(dāng)然，這種內(nèi)容的新鮮感不一定能提升考生的分?jǐn)?shù)，但至少可以讓考官看出學(xué)生在思維上的獨(dú)特性，在語言水平同等的情況下，可能會(huì)給考生帶來一個(gè)令人意想不到的分?jǐn)?shù)。 （2） ironically 諷刺的是. （3） persistence 堅(jiān)持；持續(xù) （4） intention 意圖 （5） given

12、that. 盡管. （6） believe it or not 無論你信還是不信 03 It is proper to conclude that happy relationshipshave little to do withsharing the same amount of housework, even when women like men have full-time jobs.In this regard, gender equality and a happy marriage may have a logic different from equally sharing t

13、he housework. 這樣總結(jié)是正確的：幸福的兩性關(guān)系與分擔(dān)同樣數(shù)量的家務(wù)活沒有什么關(guān)系，即使女人和男人一樣有全職工作。在這方面，兩性平等和幸福婚姻的邏輯可能不同于平等分擔(dān)家務(wù)。 解析 （1）本段對(duì)前文的觀點(diǎn)進(jìn)行總結(jié)。 （2）to have little to do with. 與.沒有什么關(guān)系 （3）in this regard 在這一方面 本范文中可背誦的句子 1.In appearance, the zero gender gap is being a reality, in the sense that, since both men and women are equally

14、the familysbread-earnersworking from nine to five, both should share the housework equally. 男人和女人都在朝九晚五地供養(yǎng)家庭，因此家務(wù)應(yīng)該分擔(dān)，在這個(gè)意義上，零性別差異表面上正在成為現(xiàn)實(shí)。 2. Even in relationships in which the dual-earner couple aims to share the domestic burdens, most women would like to keep their men away from traditional task

15、s and childcare-giving activities. 即使在雙收入夫婦愿意分擔(dān)家庭負(fù)擔(dān)的關(guān)系中，大多數(shù)女性也希望讓她們的男人遠(yuǎn)離傳統(tǒng)的家務(wù)和照看孩子的工作。 3. Despite the bestintentionsof men, their women might think that, although sharing household chores may do no harm, it may do little to contribute to a happy marriage. 盡管男人的本意是好的，但她們的妻子可能會(huì)認(rèn)為，雖然分擔(dān)家務(wù)活不會(huì)有什么害處，但卻基本無助

16、于幸?；橐?。 4.Given thatboth males and females are created equal, the two genders are not meant to share housework equally. 誠然，男女生而平等，但這并不意味著他們必須平等地分擔(dān)家務(wù)。 5. It is proper to conclude that happy relationshipshave little to do withsharing the same amount of housework, even when women like men have full-time

17、 jobs. 這樣總結(jié)是正確的：幸福的兩性關(guān)系與分擔(dān)同樣數(shù)量的家務(wù)活沒有什么關(guān)系，即使女人和男人一樣有全職工作。 7分范文 With dual-ine families, it seems logic that the domestic burdens should be equally shouldered as an issue of gender equality as well as happy relationships. These days, there is evidence that the gender gap in housework has been narrowed

18、gradually. Men are increasingly getting involved in housework, particularly if both men and women are employed in full-time jobs. For example, some husbands are having their share of household duties, such as cleaning, cooking, washing, and looking after children. In appearance, the zero gender gap

19、is being a reality, in the sense that, since both men and women are equally the familys bread-earners working from nine to five, both should share the housework equally. For happy relationships, however, men and women equally sharing the housework is often not as important as what it seems. Ironical

20、ly, the main reason for the persistence of inequality at home may be women themselves. Even in relationships in which the dual-earner couple aims to share the domestic burdens, most women would like to keep their men away from traditional tasks and childcare-giving activities. So, despite the best i

21、ntentions of men, their women might think that, although sharing household chores may do no harm, it may do little to contribute to a happy marriage. On this issue, there may be no need to seek 50/50 gender equality because men will always be men and women will always be women. Given that both males

22、 and females are created equal, the two genders are not meant to share housework equally. Believe it or not, most women at heart may not expect this to happen. It is proper to conclude that happy relationships have little to do with sharing the same amount of housework, even when women like men have

23、 full-time jobs. In this regard, gender equality and a happy marriage may have a logic different from equally sharing the housework. (313 words) 好夫妻天長地久， 佳伉儷相濡以沫。 死生同行真兄弟， 詩酒結(jié)伴好夫妻。 在婚姻里男人的需求是被妻子欣賞、崇拜、理解和被依賴。而女人需要的是被丈夫?qū)檺邸⑹斋@安全感和浪漫。夫妻相處中要學(xué)會(huì)去閱彼此彼此的情緒背后的內(nèi)在需求，很多時(shí)候吵架的背后是在向彼此要求關(guān)注，向彼此尋求安全感與信任，所以，不要被出現(xiàn)問題時(shí)表面的情

24、緒所控制。要知道，夫妻兩個(gè)人完全不同的家庭，不同的教育、不同的閱歷、不同的習(xí)慣、不同的愛好，走進(jìn)婚姻后所謂的矛盾就是這些不同在打架，那些幸福的婚姻其實(shí)就是兩個(gè)人都接納了這些不同，并能做到共同面對(duì)，共同調(diào)整，而問題夫妻并沒有真正的接納彼此，在婚姻里這些不同無關(guān)對(duì)錯(cuò)，只是兩個(gè)人之間的差異，沖突只是沒有處理好彼此的差異，所以不能輕易就去否定對(duì)方?；橐龅谋举|(zhì)是一種合作關(guān)系，那些過的得好的一定是接納合作得不錯(cuò)，不好的婚姻一定是接納合作無法進(jìn)行。 感覺演藝圈的結(jié)婚時(shí)都很相愛日子久了就不新鮮了。 相互崇拜，互相烘托，勢(shì)均力敵 一個(gè)家庭，一樁婚姻，一對(duì)夫妻， _沒有矛盾，沒有爭吵，有矛盾也是很正常的。有矛盾不

25、可怕，可怕的是矛盾不斷升級(jí)惡化，最終導(dǎo)致家庭破裂，婚姻失敗，夫妻散伙。那么，到底怎樣處理好夫妻矛盾，來避免這些問題的發(fā)生？ 首先，夫妻要善于交流溝通。溝通也是有技巧的：一是溝通時(shí)必須尋找共同話題；二是溝通時(shí)要善于甜言蜜語；三是夫妻溝通不要算舊帳提往事；四是在溝通中不爭孰是孰非；五是夫妻在溝通時(shí)要善于傾聽；六是夫妻溝通要選在雙方情緒好的時(shí)候；七是夫妻溝通要在溫馨浪漫的氣氛中溝通；八是夫妻溝通要展望美好的未來。 其次，夫妻要善于彼此賞識(shí)。夫妻矛盾很多都是“視覺疲勞”和“審美疲勞”，由于夫妻朝夕相處時(shí)間久了，或多或少會(huì)暴露出自己的缺點(diǎn)，如果雙方不能正確面對(duì)，或者是拿著放大鏡看對(duì)方的短處，就會(huì)把對(duì)方看得一無是處。