大學英語口語課件love-and-marriage.ppt

1、Love and Marriage,【Happy April Fools Day】,April 1 is not a national holiday, but is widely recognized and celebrated as a day when people play practical jokes and hoaxes on each other.,Whats love?,Love means never having to say youre sorry. -Love Story,What are your major considerations when you are

2、 choosing your BF or GF? And why?,Appearance Height Personality Occupation Family Education Other factors,The sweetest things you can do for a girl are the little things that let her know shes in your heart chaste 貞潔的愛; devoted 專一的愛; loyal 忠誠的愛; tender 溫柔的愛; sincere 真摯的愛; fervent 熱烈的愛; burning 熾熱的愛;

3、 intense 強烈的愛; wild 狂熱的愛; at first sight一見鐘情; story愛情故事; triangle三角戀愛; affair風流韻事。,【各種戀】,初戀Puppy Love / First Love， 單戀/暗戀unrequited love， 暗戀have a crush on, 網戀Internet love, 熱戀honeymoon phase, 苦戀bitter love, 師生戀teacher-student love, 同性戀homosexuality hm,seksjlt , 三角戀 love triangle, 夕陽戀sunset love, 雙性

4、戀bisexuality basekulti , 姐弟戀toy boy love,【搭訕佳句】,1. You look like someone I know. Havent we met before?你跟我一個朋友長得好象。我們之前見過吧? 2. Thats a great haircut.你的發(fā)型很不錯。 3. Are you here alone? 一個人嗎? 4. I lost my number, can I have yours?我把我的電話號碼弄丟了，你可以把你的告訴我嗎?,【“名花/草有主了”怎么表達】,比較常見的表達有 be spoken for 或 be taken，指已

5、有人擁有所有權的已被預訂。Shes already taken.她已經有男朋友了?；蛘哒f off the market 例：Yo, dude. Youd better quit chasing after her. Shes off the market. 老兄，你最好別追她了，她已經名花有主了。,【如何用語英語表達你現(xiàn)在的感情狀態(tài)】,1. single單身； 2. in a relationship戀愛中； 3. engaged已訂婚； 4. married已婚； 5. in an open relationship開放式關系； 6. widowed widud喪偶； 7. separate

6、d spretd分居狀態(tài)； 8. divorced dvrst已離異； 9. domestic dmstk partnership未婚同居關系； 10. Civil Union同性婚姻,【分手理由】,1.Ive met someone else./ Theres someone else.我另結新歡了。 2.Youre really too good for me./I dont deserve you.我配不上你。 3.I just dont love you anymore.我不愛你了。4.I really dont wanna be tied down.我不想被束縛。 5.The mag

7、ics gone from our relationship.我們之間的愛情魔力已經不見了。,Its over.我們緣分已盡。 Were not meant for each other.我們命中注定不適合。 I need some time alone.我需要一個人過一陣子。 Were better off as friends.我們做朋友比較好,【wedding】,求婚:proposal 媒人:matchmaker 訂婚:engagement 未婚夫:fiancefinse 未婚妻:fiancee,finse 婚宴:wedding feast 婚紗:wedding gown 新郎:groo

8、m 新娘:bride 男儐相:bestman 女儐相:bridesmaid 證婚人:witness of wedding 婚誓:wedding vows 花童:flower girl 嫁妝:dowrydari 蜜月:honeymoon,Marriage,再婚:remarry 重婚:bigamy bmi 試婚:trial marriage 包辦婚姻:arranged marriage 近親結婚:intermarriage 老少配:May and December marriage 如意郎君:Mr.Right 閃婚:flash marriage 一夫一妻:monogamy mnmi 離婚:divo

9、rce,Have you ever attended a wedding? How do you think about it? Can you describe it briefly?,bride 新娘 bridegroom (groom) 新郎 groomsman (best man)伴郎 bridesmaid 伴娘 wedding ceremony 結婚典禮 wedding invitation 婚禮請柬 church wedding 教堂婚禮traditional Chinese wedding 傳統(tǒng)中式婚禮 outdoor wedding 戶外婚禮 wedding reception

10、 婚宴 wedding dress 婚紗、結婚禮服 Wedding march 婚禮進行曲 honeymoon 蜜月,【“我不嫁給你”各種惡搞說法】,高中水平:I will never marry you. 高考:Never will I marry you. 四級:You are the last man I am willing to marry. 六級:Under no circumstances will I marry you. GRE: If you were the last man in the world, I would definitely remain single.,

11、I _ , take you _, to be my wedded wife (husband). To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us apart. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.,Wedding vows,Wedding traditions,In some west

12、ern countries, brides are supposed to gather something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue, and to carry or wear them on their wedding day as they walk down the aisle.,It is said that the average expenses of Chinese wedding has risen to RMB 120,000 (including the cost of pre-we

13、dding photos, wedding reception, and honeymoon trip),What your opinion on the huge cost of a wedding?,Free Discussion,How will you plan your own wedding?,Different understanding of love and marriage between Chinese and Westerners,West,China,Absolutely personal issue,Family background social relation

14、s “Marry your match”,Love Marriage,High divorce rate,Marriage Love Marriage = responsibilities and duties,Description of a date: Pretty, cute, smart, humorous,Description of a date: Height, Occupation, Education background, Family,Love at first sight transient,Time breeds love. Last long,Independenc

15、y in economy and thought,All is common./Share everything,Total equality Househusband,Men should handle external matters, while women look after the home,Marry You-Bruno Mars,If your parents are strongly opposed to your marriage with somebody, what will you do?,Free Discussion,Debating: College stude

16、nts falling in love,The claim(the Proposition) : College love affair will do more good than harm. Reference arguments: to enrich the life experience; to promote the growth of your mind; to support each other; pure environment/ without interference; plenty of time for mutual understanding; easier to

17、find true love; firm emotional foundation happy recollections; .,Debating: College students falling in love,The counterclaim(the Opposition): College love affair will do more harm than good. Arguments: Financial burden; Interfere with the study (time-consuming); Immature thoughts; Uncertain future;

18、Practical problems (jobs, location, family) ,Some useful expression for a debate,in my opinion 我的意見是 Id like to point out that 我想指出的是 Personally I think 我個人認為 the point is that 關鍵是, 要點是. I believe that 我相信 in my experience 根據(jù)我的經驗 but what about？ 但關于方面呢？,what I mean to say was 我的意思是說 Im afraid i disa

19、gree. 恐怕我是持反對意見的。 I dont think so. 我不那樣認為。 on the contrary. 相反的。 all right， but dont you think？ 好吧，但難道你不覺得 thats a good point. 這個看法不錯。 thats not （entirely） true. 那不（完全）正確。 wellwhat do you think （about）？ 你覺得怎么樣？ let me rephrase what I said. 讓我重申剛才所說的,Story reproduction,A farmer who lived in a small v

20、illage suffered from a severe pain in the chest. This never seemed to get any better. The farmer eventually decided that he would consult a doctor in the nearest town. But as he was a miserly person he thought he would find out what he would have to pay this doctor. He was told that a patient had to pay three pounds for the first visit and one pound for the second visit. The farmer thought about this for a long time, and